Have you ever told yourself this?
– When I lose some weight, then I’ll be attractive.
– When I find the right person then I’ll be able to settle down.
It takes many forms.
Strangely enough, it was actually the story that you keep telling yourself is what prevent you from being able to achieve your goal.
Part of you might already know that just reaching your “goal” wasn’t going to actually get you where I want to be, so maybe not reaching it allowed you to hold on to that fiction.
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The truth is that almost every time you say When X…Then Y, you’re giving yourself an excuse for not taking action.
There will never be a “perfect” time to do what you need to do.
Instead, now is the perfect time to get started, whatever is going on. There’s always a step you can take.